Friday, May 7, 2010

Mere Yaar ki Shaadi hai.. !!

Its so strange that how certain thoughts simply bounce out of your sub conscious mind to its.. oh so active counter-part; the way I jump out of my half asleep state when a forgotten chore pricks in the back of my mind and awakes me when all I want to do is doze off into the beautiful world of dreams !! Sometimes these are just random thoughts.. sometimes sparked by a varied chain .. .. .. .. Like this one .. .. .. .. ..

Would you believe that off late all my Girl Friends are being fixed up (I know you would), not that either of the Guys are spared (The most obvious reason stated is "Its The Right Age"). With all the happiness surrounding the alliances, whether Love or Arranged, it makes me accept the hard fact that The Time is changing and so are we; New Relationships are forming and Old ones are taking New Shapes. Being my hopeful self, I believe the change would be good but that doesn't stop me from missing all the dearest people I met in my life !!

As I like reading, I have come across so many citations about Friends... Somehow this one just has stuck with me... A Friend is someone You like as a person other than yourself !! The series of Questions that sprang in my head after reading this made me realize so many things about myself and the friends I have. I have met many people so far.. very few have made it to the closely knit circle of friends I have... each one of them so different yet having so much in common... making their OWN SPECIAL place in my HEART.. my LIFE too... !

They have made me face my vices, know my strengths and refined me as a person all along. Its with me (or Is it with you guys too?) that I seem to get infected with all kinds of 'Keetanu' (that's how I call it, Hindi Translation for Germs) from my friends.. imbibing their habits, their language, their way of thinking.. It doesn't stop here, I even start behaving the way they do for a li'l while. Few Keetanu stay and few are cured with time ! And as I now see them I know my 'Keetanus' also play havoc in their minds every now and then. With this Inter-Exchange of Thoughts, Smiles, Laughter, Arguments, Moments and much more; The Journey has been Simply Wonderful .. .. .. .. "The Friend-Ship continues to sail as I Cherish each GEM Life has Gifted Me and is going to Gift me moving ahead".