Friday, May 7, 2010

Mere Yaar ki Shaadi hai.. !!

Its so strange that how certain thoughts simply bounce out of your sub conscious mind to its.. oh so active counter-part; the way I jump out of my half asleep state when a forgotten chore pricks in the back of my mind and awakes me when all I want to do is doze off into the beautiful world of dreams !! Sometimes these are just random thoughts.. sometimes sparked by a varied chain .. .. .. .. Like this one .. .. .. .. ..

Would you believe that off late all my Girl Friends are being fixed up (I know you would), not that either of the Guys are spared (The most obvious reason stated is "Its The Right Age"). With all the happiness surrounding the alliances, whether Love or Arranged, it makes me accept the hard fact that The Time is changing and so are we; New Relationships are forming and Old ones are taking New Shapes. Being my hopeful self, I believe the change would be good but that doesn't stop me from missing all the dearest people I met in my life !!

As I like reading, I have come across so many citations about Friends... Somehow this one just has stuck with me... A Friend is someone You like as a person other than yourself !! The series of Questions that sprang in my head after reading this made me realize so many things about myself and the friends I have. I have met many people so far.. very few have made it to the closely knit circle of friends I have... each one of them so different yet having so much in common... making their OWN SPECIAL place in my HEART.. my LIFE too... !

They have made me face my vices, know my strengths and refined me as a person all along. Its with me (or Is it with you guys too?) that I seem to get infected with all kinds of 'Keetanu' (that's how I call it, Hindi Translation for Germs) from my friends.. imbibing their habits, their language, their way of thinking.. It doesn't stop here, I even start behaving the way they do for a li'l while. Few Keetanu stay and few are cured with time ! And as I now see them I know my 'Keetanus' also play havoc in their minds every now and then. With this Inter-Exchange of Thoughts, Smiles, Laughter, Arguments, Moments and much more; The Journey has been Simply Wonderful .. .. .. .. "The Friend-Ship continues to sail as I Cherish each GEM Life has Gifted Me and is going to Gift me moving ahead".

6 comments:

Air said...

its like we r abt to enter ur mind....ur insight...!!
wats going on dere....and the moment we are about to reach the entrance.... we saw that the door is locked....!!
but the startup is really well.... its first time i read it in full go.... :)
Keep up the good work.... :)

Kunal said...

It happens with everyone :)

We fight and forgive
We Love and Hate
Sometimes irritate
We grow each time
Our hearts Chime
Without them,
where is the fun,
Otherwise,
Its Just Life Under the Sun!!

Unknown said...

Nice to see your ship ;), May God always bless you with this feeling and friends and keep you moving happily with this ship :)

Unknown said...

This one is for you:

"Happiness is time spent with a friend and looking foward to sharing time with them again."

Keep going :)

Dhananjay said...

Good one.. I liked it the way you have written about yourself and friends. The Ship will always sail as you have so many good friends. Getting infected from your friends behavior is quite normal and it happens to me all the time. You also affect your friends for sure...
keep up the good work.

Parul said...

these feelings r so natural for ur closest frens, all of us go thru this, uncomfortable by d foreign change, but guess this too shall pass givin us sweet memories 2 cherish!!